Fast Help Guaranteed: Breaking Up with Your Boyfriend is Hard to Do
Author: TW Jackson
Author: TW Jackson
We all know that it helps to get a little guaranteed breaking up with your boyfriend help along the way. This isn't an easy thing to do and you probably don't have a great deal of experience with it. This is something that is difficult enough that most of us don't want a great deal of experience doing. That's the good news. The bad news is that it's something that really won't get any easier with practice (or maybe that's really good news too). The bottom line is that women have been largely on their own in the past to figure out how to end things humanely. The problem is that there is a lot of mixes messages going around about what is and isn't humane. The second problem is that in the past women have turned to other women to try and figure out how to break up with a boyfriend in a way that will inflict the least possible pain. Since men and women see things from a completely different perspective perhaps that isn't the best source of information on the matter. How do you do this unappealing deed without tearing him to the core? Turn off your emotions for the moment. Make this about him and not about you. Be as emotionless as possible. He's probably going to go through plenty of them for both of you. He'll be angry and say things that might hurt, he'll be sad and your heart will reach out to him. If you have your emotions running full tilt this can send you to an emotional meltdown of your own. The last thing you need is for both of you to fall apart at the same time. Take control of your emotions so that he can really let go of the control over his. Face him in person. It is tempting to resort to the old "Dear John" letter but this is not the best policy to follow. It's much kinder to him to break up face to face and not through a letter, voice mail, text message, or email. It's more difficult to do it this way but it's better for you both because it gives you closure. It also gives him a chance to say what's on his mind after you've had your say. Have realistic expectations. This is not a "hearts and flowers" sort of situation. Be prepared for tears, anger, or even stony silence from your boyfriend as things sink in. Do not expect a pleasant reaction especially if he's not expecting this. About the Author:
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