My boyfriend and I just split up, what am I going to do
? He doesn't pickup my texts and he never calls me. I need someone to help me!
Is this you? Does it feel like your ex doesn't want anything to do with you and everything you try pushes them further away? Is this your situation? Are you dealing with the breakup the best you can?
Are you always thinking of the same thing, how am I going to get my ex boyfriend back? There are strategies and specific tips that need to be followed to improve the chances of getting your ex back. Your mind tells you one thing but your heart is telling you something else, this is why you are reading this now, to get back together with your ex.
Emotions and nature are telling you to try hard to get your ex back, but this might lead to a problem and might have the opposite effect; your ex might pull away instead. Continuing on this path will eventually make it worse.
If you are doing the following it will need to stop. Are you making calls, writing email to your ex boyfriend? Do you want sympathy from everyone? You will need to discontinue with these types of emotions. If you want to get your ex back the first step in doing this is to stop trying to communicate with your ex.
Getting your ex boyfriend back you will need to discontinue what you have been doing and follow these new strategies. The first step is to cut ties with your ex. This is temporary and is part of the strategy. This will not be easy to do.
During this time you will need to focus on you instead of focusing on the relationship. Whatever you do stay strong so you do not revert back to your old habits.
Everything is about to change, your boyfriend will not know what's going on when you stop pursuing him. His mind will start to wander and he will not be so sure of himself because he doesn't know why you stopped, you have just become a mystery to him. Now the entire relationship situation is starting to turn in your favor since you are not smothering him he will start to have the feelings of missing you.
The entire strategy is repairing the relationship dealing with the breakup and getting your ex boyfriend back. Now your basic knowledge of how this works will help you not make the same mistakes again. By using this strategy your ex will start to think of all the reasons why he misses you.
This is not the time to begin smothering your ex; this is the time to stay mysterious. Be standoffish but don't go overboard, keep the mystery going.