It is hard to believe how many people claim to be lonely in the world. It makes you wonder what would happen if all of these people were put into the same room together whether or not it would solve the problem. Though you might not want to hold your breath waiting for that to happen. Truth be told you need to get your self out there, and make your self available if you want to find someone to love. Are you beginning to give up on finding the man of your dreams? Is trying to get a guy to like you a little frustrating? What are the possibilities to make a man want you? If you are ready to approach this problem using a different technique then read on.
Figure out what you want
It's a good idea to list the things that you desire from a man before you go out shopping for one. When looking for a man that has a lot of intelligence, you might find your self at the right place in a library or a bookstore. Strong and physically fit men can usually be found and health clubs and you can get some needed exercise at the same time. A trip to the park or Sundays at church can land you an animal lover or spiritual man. The men that tend to keep them selves busy can be found in coffee shops or community sponsored events, while a sporty man will be at any local games in your area. The important thing to remember is to make your self available in the places where a match can be made.
Quality time
Being attractive is important, but you will have better luck with an attractive personality. The attractive personality will have to be accompanied with the availability of quality time that you will need to spend with the guy. You will have to feel good about your self by projecting a positive attitude and a willingness to allow him to do the same. You will want to flirt with him to show him that your interests are more than friendly.
Don't be shy
You'll not want to be shy when you find the right person. During your conversation with him, try to get a good understanding of what he likes, and what he doesn't like. Take advantage of any common interests, and share them openly with him. Then shift his focus and attention back to you while remaining engaged in the conversation, and let him know that you would be interested in following up with more in the future. While you have his attention continue flirting with him.
Be optimistic
In order for you to sell your self you will need to have a confident and optimistic attitude to succeed. The positive feelings that he gets when he his talking to you will determine whether the relationship will be romantic or just friendly.
By making your self available you will eventually find someone to love. You will not have to make a man want you if you learn how to be confident and optimistic. The most important tip to remember is if you want to get a guy to like you then listen closely to what he is telling you.