Get ur ex back quicker with a completely new approach
Get ur ex back quicker with a completely new approach
Trying to think of ways to get ur ex back can be really hard. All your friends will have a different point of view. Sometimes what worked for them might not work with your ex.
Fortunately there are some things that work for nearly all couples. There are also things that no one should do.
Touching on the things you should not do is important because these actions will usually convince your ex that they did the right thing in dumping you.
Do NOT try to contact your ex all day and night. Calling and leaving hundreds of voice mail on their phone usually results in them changing their phone number, not in calling you. This also applies to sending emails and texts.
Do NOT approach their family trying to get them on your side or asking them what your ex is doing. They will deeply resent you approaching their family
Do NOT go to where they work, or hang outside places where they go. Turning up to a bar where you know they are likely to be, will usually end up in an unpleasant scene.
You are probably thinking, so what do I do.
First, be honest with yourself, is the relationship worth saving. There is no point in winning back your ex if it is only going to fall apart again.
Try to be totally honest and understand why they ended the relationship. What needs to change and are you prepared to make the changes? If the answer is yes then go on.
Totally surprise them, give them some space. At first they are going to love this. Then they are going to be curious as to what you are doing. A good sign.
Meanwhile spend time and energy doing things for you. What is going to make you feel better? You want to be on top of your game before you have contact with them.
You need to have a strategy, something better than sending flowers.
Using these tactics is a good starting point for getting your ex back.