Getting Your Ex Back - How to Make Them Communicate With You Again
Getting Your Ex Back - How to Make Them Communicate With You Again
You are feeling lost and hurt. What, with all the calls, you would expect at least one returned call. You want to take this loss in stride, but how can your ex just ignore you and move on like that? You feel that if only you could plead your case, if only they'd listen to what you have to say, you could make things different.
Even though you want to re-open communication channels, you need to stop trying. Your ex needs to start to miss you. If you adopt the "wait and watch" policy, you will allow the space needed to think about things and assess your relationship. Getting your ex back is going to require that you leave him or her alone for awhile.
You should occupy yourself with the things you enjoyed on your own or before you two met. Get back in touch with your old friends. Find ways to laugh. Surrounding yourself with young children, maybe in your family, is a great way to forget about adult troubles and find youthful humor in life again. With children, you can be silly, and their innocence begins to rub off on you. This can be very therapeutic and it is a good way to make the time pass more quickly. Time may not heal all wounds but, it certainly makes the pain settle down to a dull ache. If you are not seething in pain, you will more easily control your urge to call or stop by.
Letting this time pass, and allowing your ex to examine things in their way will open up the channels of communication. If he or she calls you, then the communication is voluntary, and thus, far more positive. If after this painful time passes, you are still interested in getting your ex back, you will find that this method has served to clean the slate and you may be able to start anew.