Just been through a break up? Missing your ex a lot? Want to get them back into your life? Well, getting your ex back can be stressful and taxing especially when you are the only one trying to mend the relationship. You need to stay calm and composed as everyone needs their space. You can't pressurize your ex to come back to you but the least you can do is to avoid doing things that might drive them away.
Don't chase your ex
Chasing your ex with calls, text messages, emails, sending messages through her friends or any other means of unwanted communication can chase your ex away from you. Your ex might start avoiding you and your dream of getting your ex back will remain a dream forever. Always remember that letting your ex go is the most important step of getting your ex back.
Don't follow your ex around
Don't even think of stalking or following your ex everywhere. This will only irritate and annoy them. Forcing them to bump into you or seeing you everywhere will only make getting your ex back more difficult. Avoid all contact with your ex, give them space and time to miss you.
Don't avoid your friends
The first thing one usually does after a break up is to lock themselves at home but this is wrong. The more you stay alone, the more you are going to miss your ex and act foolishly. Acting foolishly can reduce your chances of getting your ex back. Don't punish yourself by being locked up at home. Go out with friends, socialize and try to be busy. Friends are what you need at this time.
Don't let depression get to you
Falling into depression is the worst thing that can happen to you at this stage. Don't let your relationship affect other spheres of your life to such an extent that you might end up at a psychiatrists or lose your job. This will make you a loser in your ex's eyes and getting your ex back will be even harder.
Don't go on telling everyone your story
Telling too many people about your break up can only get you pity from them and pity is surely not what you need at this moment. So stay mum and try not to make a fool of yourself. Telling everyone might just spread the word and make it more difficult in getting your ex back.
