How To Attract A Woman - Positioning Yourself As Being Someone She Wants
Ask any guy who has tried going the logical route when it comes to attracting a woman and they will tell you that it is pretty ineffective
. Trying to make a woman feel attraction for you because of logical reasons is not the way to go if you really want to make her feel like she wants you. That happens more on an emotional level, so trying to appeal to her logical reasoning isn't going to cut it. What can you do that will help you to attract a woman by positioning yourself as someone she wants on an emotional level?
Here is some advice:
1. Let go of the idea that being logical and coming from that perspective is going to be the way to go.
So many guys try to attract a woman this way and fail, it should be pretty obvious that this is not the approach that you want to take. Still, most guys will do this when they try to "convince" a woman that she should be attracted to them. If you feel the urge to tell a woman why she should be attracted to you, realize that you are not positioning yourself as someone she wants and that it probably isn't going to work. Letting go of this idea is the first step to actually figuring out what really works.
2. Give her the immediate feeling that you are someone she is attracted to by your body language.
We all know the body language of a guy who has absolutely no confidence at all with women and we all know that a guy who comes across that way doesn't tend to do well with females. If you want to be able to attract a woman on an emotional level, you have to come across as having the right body language right away. That way, she gets that instant attraction feeling so you don't have to really work that hard to make her feel that way.
3. Make sure that the attraction she feels is sexual attraction by flirting with her.
A woman can feel that instant attraction feeling and then lose it pretty quickly if you don't act like a guy who wants to be with her on a physical level. That's when you come across as just another nice guy and not like a guy she really wants to be with. You need to make sure that the attraction that she feels for you is sexual and flirting with her is a good way to make sure that is indeed the way that she feels about you.