How To Encourage People Around You To Find Happiness
You can always be sure that your closest family
, including kids and partner, want you to be successful in life. What happens and becomes absolutely wonderful to them shines on you because they are happy and content.
Those two areas of life - parenthood and being the one part of a relationship be it marriage or some other way - are extremely entangled; what happens in a parents relationship affect the child and what happens in the life of the child affects the parent and the relationship. The closeness does that everybody are exposed to both negative and positive situations or conflicts. The way these incidents are handled are imperative for the way it is possible to create daily happiness around you.
So you have to decide in which way you are prepared to handle these situations - especially if you until now have let the situations handle you!
Making decisions on your premises means that you must know exactly what you want to obtain. Set some boundaries for how far you want to go in different areas and stick to it. Maybe you have decided that you are not going to interfere even if you see one of your loved ones making a big mistake - in your opinion. Are you able to stick to that decision? It is so easy to fall back to being judgmental and let your ego and pride take over. Some close advisers also start making "if only you had.." statements, and that certainly does not help anybody. So stick to the wise choice of being a good support, no matter what.
"It is always like this", is a standard saying from the family when a close person needs help and advice.
Helping somebody else is not a one-way process if you want to obtain a successful result.
There are other ways to help family and relationship situations become great and positive experiences for everybody.
It is possible to create amazing results by using your inner personal power, throw away your unconfirmed doubts and find the areas where you know you can show genuine faith in your nearest and dearest. Then do it.
Make an incentive for yourself to get to where you want to go.
Happiness is more important than anything else. Without joy it is almost impossible to create a full life and with happiness solutions come so much easier.
Support the strengths, keep the successes in mind, be supportive in a joyful way, laugh a lot and learn from the mistakes you and others make.
Finding solutions is not only a boost for your experience, but it also makes you feel more accomplished and happy.
I remember when I was in my teens and thought about people over thirty. I considered them OLD, of-course they did not understand anything and communicating with them was almost impossible - they were living in another world, I thought. Which is totally right, and it strangely enough goes both ways!
How can you make good solutions with somebody from another world?
First thing; you need to find a language you both understand.
Having principles will work somewhat, especially if you live up to your principles. If you don't, using them will not work, unless you yourself are willing to change.
To be open minded and forget all about being judgmental, listening to what is said and taking your time to think before you answer with a smile, is an idea that will work.
This can be very stressing.
Maybe you just hate people called Ben because somebody with that name at one time hurt you somehow. Or you have had some bad experience with teenagers calling you an old idiot, or something else triggers to take points of view that are based on irrelevant factors and hurt feelings. Or as a teenager, you are so used to hear about your lack of experience that you have stopped listening to the people who actually could help you.
We all know that a good laugh is the best medicine to become happier. Being faithful to yourself when it comes to relationship and family is even more important and can be the best inspirational help you can give your dearest.
by: Pia Balling
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