How To Get Along With Your Future Mother-in-law

You have finally met the guy of your dreams

You have finally met the guy of your dreams. He treats you well, he's successful, and he's good looking. His mother is the only problem. As far as she is concerned, you are the devil in a pair of black patent leather pumps. Of all of the girls her perfect little boy had to choose, why did it have to be you?

There are ways to get through this tangle. Parents love their kids and would do anything for them. Just as women have the idea of their perfect mate, parents have formed images of the perfect spouses for their children. It is likely that you don't fit the bill.

Don't worry because all is not lost. The first thing that you have to do is find some friends in the family. Your number one friend should always be your spouse, or fiance. Talk to him about the tension and see if he has a solution. He knows his mother better than you do and may understand the source of her angst. It may be that he had a girlfriend in the past that she liked a lot.

If the family has other sisters-in-law, make friends with them. They are in the same predicament and are in a great place to offer advice. Your husband will have to have a selection of married brothers for this plan to work.

If he is an only child or has a few sisters, walk on eggshells. Sisters generally side with the mother. If that happens, you will have two people to prove yourself to. But if this is the case, there is still hope. You must know some politics and people management skills. You must utilize the skills that you've learned in the office. When you got the promotion that the girl a few cubicles down wanted, it took all the finesse she had to not glue your phone together. It took even more skill and charm to invite her on your team. Your people skills paid off. Today, she has become one of your favorite colleagues. When all else fails, this technique will work with your mother-in-law too. Tuning into Finesse

First of all, get the tension to a minimum. If she's picking on you at the beauty shop. Allow her to speak. Offer her a cup of coffee. Offer her a chair. Do anything you can to make her comfortable. The worst thing that you can do in this situation is to disagree with her. If you give in, you're in control. So appease her, placate her, and be as nice as you can. Do this with anyone she may have talked about you negatively too. Eventually they will learn you're not the devil and move on.

by: Kristine Doherty

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