How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back - 4 Common Mistakes That You Are Probably Making

Whenever I hear stories from guys who feel like they have tried just about everything

to win back an ex girlfriend, there are certain mistakes that they almost always have made without meaning to. When you are dealing with a break up and your emotions are all over the place, you really can't expect yourself to think too clearly. As a result, you usually don't end up making the best decisions that you can make. There are plenty of ideas that are going to end up fizzling out, even though they may seem like a good idea when you first think of them.

There are plenty of situations that exist where all the guy has to do is figure out the right things to do and he would be able to get that second chance that he wants, but he ends up blowing it and doesn't know it. You certainly don't want to end up in any predicaments like that, so knowing what common mistakes that you probably are making right now but shouldn't be making can really help you out. It might be the thing that ends up deciding whether or not you end up back with her or you end up alone.

Here are the four common mistakes that you probably are making right now if you are trying to get your ex girlfriend back:

1) Thinking that your ex girlfriend is going to end up marrying the next guy that comes along.

Guys don't usually like to admit to being dramatic about relationship issues, but they can be. And one of the ways that guys typically end up being dramatic about is the idea that their ex girlfriend is automatically going to end up with a guy that she marries right away after the break up. Chances are that she is either going to remain single or rebound a little bit, but she is probably not going to meet the guy that she is going to walk down the aisle with just because you and her have broken up.

2) Feeling like you need to get advice on what to do from anyone that wants to give it to you.

Relationship advice is common, and many people who cannot seem to get their own romantic life right seem to want to be the ones that give you advice on what you should do the most. You really have to be aware of the fact that getting the wrong advice on what to do to get your ex back and then acting on that advice may end up being a big mistake.

3) Talking to your ex girlfriend all of the time about the fact that you want to win her back.

Becoming a broken record about the fact that you want to get back together with your ex girlfriend is not going to help you make any progress with her. The more often that you talk about the idea of reconciling with one another, the more likely she is going to develop a way to tune you out and if she does that enough times, there won't be much that you can do to change that pattern. That means that you are going to eventually get to the point of no return where there really is nothing that you can do to make her feel like getting back together is the right thing to do.

4) Asking your ex girlfriend what it is that you can do to make her give you another chance.

Trying to get this kind of an answer from your ex is kind of a catch 22. You want to know exactly what it is that is going to make her take you back, and you know what? She probably couldn't even tell you if she wanted to. You are probably not going to get an answer from her and even if you do, it's probably not going to be what you really need to do to make her want you back as her boyfriend again.

by: Chris Tyler

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