To say a relationship breakup is painful is an understatement
. You suffer according to the depth of your emotional commitment to the relationship. If you still have strong feelings for your ex, there are a couple of thing you can do to rekindle the flame and get your ex back once again.
The first thing to do is not to get desperate. Becoming hysterical about your loss will only make you do the exact thing that will make your ex stay away from you for good. Therefore the first thing to do is to stay calm and understand that you can take workable measures that will bring your lover back into your arms once again.
Second, take some time to grieve and appreciate the breakup. Take this period to actually put the right value on your ex and the relationship that you had. Don't just rush out trying to get your ex back with a barrage of phone calls and text messages. After getting your emotions firmly under control, you can now make a stronger decision about the direction you want to go when you start the relationship all over again.
Reflect on the relationship and appreciate what you have learned about yourself and your ex. Get rid of any anger or animosity. Decide what you will change about yourself to become better in the relationship. Take good care of yourself. Prepare to give back to your ex a much improved person in yourself. Even if your ex is at fault, don't focus on faults but on what can be done to make things better.
One thing you should avoid is jumping into the next available open arms to give you relief from the pain of the breakup. Rebound relationships don't always end well. It could also affect your chances of getting your ex back.
There are proven methods that you can use to get your ex back. It will take some learning, but by applying these methods you will have your love back in your arms in no time.