How To Harness Your Attraction Power
How To Harness Your Attraction Power
How To Harness Your Attraction Power
Scientists have discovered chemicals called pheromones that attract animals to each other in nature. Today, most scientists are studying how pheromones affect the way insects behave. There is some proof that pheromones have something to do with the way that some ants communicate with each other.
When skunks spray people with foul smelling liquid, they are releasing pheromones of some kind. There are some apes that attract mates by rubbing urine with pheromones in it on the feet of their potential mate. It is also thought that animals, especially females, including insects and mammals, release these chemicals called pheromones to display gene diversity.
Gene diversity is necessary if the offspring that is produced from mating is going to survive and be healthy. Today, perfume makers are using pheromones to try to help people attract the opposite sex through smell. They get these pheromones that they use in perfumes from whales and musk deer.
There is research into the idea that human pheromones play a role in selecting mates. Different sciences including biology, chemistry, genetics, and psychology have different opinions. Some scientists believe that there is no such thing as pheromones. Others think they exist but do not affect the attraction between the opposite sex.
Studies done in Switzerland at the University of Bern by Klaus Wedekind are changing the minds of many scientists. One study was done by having women who were ovulating smell cotton shirts worn by a variety of men. What scientists found was that women had a preference for men's shirts that had the most genetic differences and some similarities as well.
The reasoning behind this was thought to be the same as with insects and mammals, which was to produce healthy children. It was also thought that women who were ovulating had different preferences for male odor. Other things that affected their preferences were what the men ate, what fragrances they wore, and if the women were on birth control.
What Does Personality Have to Do with Sexual Attraction?
What you believe a mate's personality is also matters. There was a study done in 2003 by Klohnen, E.c. and S. Luo on attraction and personality that found the most important factors in attraction between two people were how secure a person is and what they perceived the other person's personality to be like. This indicates that all of have personality types that we prefer and are attracted to. You only really know what a person's personality is after you spend some time with them.
The study indicated that what you perceive a person's personality to be is as much of a factor in attraction as their actual personality. What does this mean? It means that when people say they ended a relationship because the person was not who they thought they were, there is scientific evidence to back that theory up.
What is the Connection Between Attraction and Relationships?
Most of us know that the first stage in a relationship is usually attraction. That may be true but attraction is not enough for a healthy relationship. Attraction can cause you to develop an interest in someone of the opposite sex but you have to learn more about the person before you can form a real relationship. Things that are more important are the values, dreams, and passions that people share.
Does This Mean You Don't Have to Try to be Attractive?
Instead of focusing on your physical attractiveness, you should focus on your overall physical, mental, spiritual, and emotional well being. Physical attraction is just the beginning. Biology tells us that we are attracted to partners who have healthy genes.
Your emotional health is important because no one wants to be with an insecure person who is always doubting themselves. You need to know who you are, what you believe in and what you want out of life. You cannot attract someone of the opposite sex if you are not being honest about who you are. If you pretend to be something you are not, you are not going to build a health and long lasting relationship.
If you have an overall healthy attitude and are secure in who you are, you can build healthy relationships. Research has proven that you have to be secure in who you are and that this can be more important than physical attraction. You need to work on yourself for you and not for someone else. That is the way to attract someone who you are going to be happy with.
Barbora Knobova is a seasoned film translator, internationally published author and radio hostess. http://www.barbora-knobova.com
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