How to Approach Women in Bars and Nightclubs - 3 Tips on How to Make Yourself Stand Out

When you are in a crowded, lively place like a bar or a nightclub

, one of the hardest things is to get noticed by women. The music is loud, the place is kind of dark, and there are lots of people there. How does a guy like yourself stand out and get noticed by women, and more importantly, come off like the kind of guy that she wants to get to know a little better?

Clubs and bars can be easy spots to meet women, but since they are so easy, there is always going to be a lot of competition from other guys. You can't change this, it is what it is. So, you have to learn how to play the hand you are dealt, and come off like you are the ONE she should be taking notice of.

Here are 3 tips on how to approach women in bars and nightclubs and make her pay attention to YOU:

1. You have to dress in a way that stands out from the rest.

Like it or not, your appearance IS going to be the first thing that she notices. When you spot a woman from a distance and she sees that you are approaching her, she is going to be taking a quick inventory of you to see what kind of "vibe" she gets from you. If you give her the wrong kind of a vibe, then you are not going to make quite the same impression on her as you would if you gave off the "right" vibe. Dressing in a way that makes you seem friendly and fun, while standing out from the crowd is the best way to give yourself a good first impression on a woman.

2. You need to be the one that kind of guides the conversation, don't leave it up to her.

Want to see one of the most awkward moments in a bar or a club? It's when the guy nervously makes his approach, gets up to the woman, and then has nothing to say to her or leaves it up to her to guide the conversation. Be a man, take your role, and be the one that guides the conversation. This will automatically put you in the position of being the alpha male and it will take some of the awkwardness or weirdness off of her.

3. Get in close when you are talking to her, touch her lightly as you talk.

One of the best things about approaching women in bars and nightclubs, is that with all of the loudness, the darkness, and the crowdedness; there are a lot of opportunities to get close to a woman and get that physical intimacy started right away. Don't shy away from getting close to her, and while you talk to her put your hand lightly on her shoulder or her leg if you are getting the right vibe.

How to Approach Women in Bars and Nightclubs - 3 Tips on How to Make Yourself Stand Out

By: Chris Tyler

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