Want to know how to get your cheating wife back by Christmas? Think it's a long shot at best? Think again. Your wife may have been building an emotional and mental case for walking away from the marriage the entire time she was cheating on you but the odds are good that she still has a lot of love left in her heart for you. Your challenge is going to be making her remember just how much love the two of you have together fast if you want to get your wife back by Christmas.
Here's what you need to do to make that happen.
1) Avoid laying blame. It may be tempting at a time like this. She cheated on you after all. But, that's the worst thing you can do at a time like this. If you're trying to win her back and save your marriage then you're going to have to step outside your general comfort zone and offer forgiveness to your wife without ever being asked for it. You're also going to have to accept some of the responsibility for yourself in order to really get her attention and make her really hear what you have to say.
2) Apologize to your wife. Want to talk about shock therapy? This will definitely shock your wife. In fact, it will shock her into stunned silence and she'll have no choice but to hear you out and perhaps be convinced by the case you present in favour of working things out in your marriage. It's definitely worth the price of an apology no matter how painful it may be to deliver.
3) Ask for another chance. For the sake of your marriage, for the sake of your children, and for a thousand other reasons it is time to swallow your pride and ask the woman who cheated on you for a second chance. If you want to save your marriage by Christmas you really have no choice. This is one of the steps you're just going to have to make.
4) Accept her apology. Once you get your wife to the point of offering an apology it is time to accept it. Don't play the role of the injured party and don't try to play it up for something more from your wife. Accept her apology without games, without conditions, and without complaints.
If you really want to get your wife back in time for stocking to be sung and carols to be sang you're going to have to do all these things.