Trying to get back with your ex girlfriend or boyfriend and rekindle what you had? Before you run out and do something irrational make sure you read this article to get some tips on how to go about this safely.
You are in a tough position in your life, no doubt, but you can get through it with a clear head. Here are some simple things you can do to help you get the one you want back without overdoing it.
First realize that all breakups can just be temporary. You need to be serious about whether you are acting emotional or if there is really something worth saving left.
If there is something worth saving then we must figure out the best way to approach out ex. The last thing you want to do is offend your ex in your pursuit to get them back. Remember they are emotional as well right now.
A good strategy is just keeping your distance during the duration of the breakup. Yes it will be hard to do but in many cases this is what's best for both parties. Give them a couple days of space and clarity.
When you are ready to make your approach be soft and gentle. Rushing in too quickly can lead to a backlash you do not want. Let your ex know you are still there for them even after the sad break up. Show them some human compassion.
Some of the first steps you can do include sending them and email or a text message. Nothing to crazy. Just let your ex know you do care for their well being even after the break up. Don't point blame over the break up if the topic comes up, just be a good support system. Opening the barriers to communication again is the first step to getting your ex back!