As I've been working on my new book I discovered that many of you start your sexual life totally unprepared.There is much false information out there circulating among you still, even in this age of information. Many dangerous urban myths aboutlosing virginity that can ruin your life.
I have answered many questions similar to this one:
I lost my virginity last night. I didn't plan to but one thing led to another, we were fooling around, had some beers and it just happened. It hurt a little bit, but we didn't use any protection. He finished outside. Could I be pregnant? My friend told me that I can't conceive if it was my first time. Please help me I am scared.
If you could only know how many times I have seen letters like this.
For once and for all please try to remember. You could get pregnant from any unprotected sex.Coitus interruptus, also known aswithdrawalor thepull-out method, is the most unsafe one and you shouldn't be using it.Pre-ejaculatory fluid, which you also call pre-cum, that comes out of the penis can contain significant amount of sperm. Especially if a man had sex or masturbated recently. Avoid contact with it around your vaginal area. If it is your first time you aren't miraculously protected. Remember this!
Also, please don't forget the STD's. It would be a real shame that youlose virginityand get something bad in return. So please be smart and use protection. If you are thinking abouthow to lose virginity at least carry the condom around with you. It is not that heavy.
I know how your hormones can make you do foolish thinks and that in the moment of passion some of you just don't think rationally. If you girls had unprotected sex please visit you gynecologist. Talk to your mom even if it's hard. Many of teenage pregnancies wouldn't happen if only you have talked to your moms.