How to avoid a troubled relationships - Johnny Soporno's view
Many men say: "You can't trust women"
Many men say: "You can't trust women". What is the reason for this seemingly annoying fact? Well, after thinking a lot about this question and talking to many dating gurus, most importantly Johnny Soporno, I am trying to understand this issue. Let me tell you my opinion. The reason "we can't trust women", is that we have been raised to believe an irrational paradigm about the nature of women. In our society it is believed that women should "take life seriously" and settle down with a man who will take care of them and provide security (and security is the first thing that women crave). This belief has been reinforced by the notion that if a woman wants to live an independent life, wants to provide for her own security and has sex with whom ever she wants (because she likes it), she has no self respect. In fact such a woman has been given a horrible name in our society (the famous S-word). Women realized that this is a irrational paradigm, but they have given up hope that the way the society thinks will change and hence they have to find ways to suppress their true nature. And when some one is repressed, sooner or later the true nature will come up ad this leads to pain (for men and for women). If we were to understand the true nature of women (explored in further articles), we would be able to avoid disasters in our relationship and marriages and have happier lives in general.
How to avoid a troubled relationships - Johnny Soporno's view