If you happen to be at a turning point in your relationship that you think may end in divorce, do you feel you want to try and stop it stop? You would not be alone with this, many people who see a divorce on the horizon try to do what they can to stop it. Fortunately there are some techniques that can be used to either stop a divorce or fix problems before you reach that point. You should mentally prepare yourself for the worse just in case you are unable to save your marriage. Being mentally prepared is only making sure you are not devastated or disappointed by whatever outcome may come of your trying to fix things. If you must, use family therapy or a marriage counselor to help the two of you work out your differences. When you and your partner are talking about your situation it would be best to not argue. Arguing will only make it worse and you will never reach any good conclusions. Listen to each others side of the story and try to understand their feelings. You may be in the right but dont rub it in your spouses face, be reasonable and listen and find something you can agree with. Marriage counseling can even help if adultery is the problem. They have the experience to handle this kind of situation and may very well be able to save the marriage. Using marriage counseling is not always expensive. See if there are any free or reduced cost counseling services in your area if the cost may be a factor in pursuing this route. About the Author:
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