I Want My Wife Back - How to Work Things Out Before You Get Divorced

I Want My Wife Back - How to Work Things Out Before You Get Divorced

A divorce is never an easy thing to have to go through. What makes it worse is when you feel as though you want to be able to work things out with her, but she seems to be intent on ending the marriage. You probably once had images of living with her for a long time and the thought that this is not how it is going to end up playing out is more than you want to have to deal with. Now, most men that feel this way, never find a way to work things out with her and they do end up being that heartbroken guy with the ex wife that they still year for. You do NOT have to end up being THAT guy!

Here's how to work things out with her if you find yourself thinking, "I want my wife back," and you do not want to get a divorce:

1. You have to let her know that you agree that things are not as great as they could be and that things have to change.

A lot of men will try the approach where they deny that things are bad in the marriage and act as if it is her fault for feeling that way. Well, if you approach your wife that way, don't expect her to just change her mind and say that you are right. It's much more effective for you to agree that things are not going that great and that they need to change. Acknowledge that her feelings are correct, but also imply that things can be worked out.

2. Get her back by rekindling the fire of passion and attraction that she feels for you and the marriage.

As long as the passion and the attraction is still there, most women want to work things out and they do not want the marriage to end. It's your job as the man and as the one who wants to save the marriage to work on bringing that feeling back. Treat her the same way that you did when you first met her and won her over. Make her feel as though she is falling in love again and she will start to rethink the idea of getting a divorce.

3. Finally, you have to be able to be flexible enough to let things happen the way they need to happen and not the way you want them to.

It's way too easy for guys especially to get this idea in their mind of how they want to have it play out and not be flexible enough to let it happen. Sure, you might want to win her back by next week, but if that is the only way that you will let it happen, it probably will not. Be flexible and do the right things and then let it flow the way that it does and not the way that you want it to.

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