Ladies Issues Speaker - Self Respect and Discernment to Deal With Players Preying on You

Ladies Issues Speaker - Self Respect and Discernment to Deal With Players Preying on You

It breaks my heart to hear of girls being taken advantage of by deceitful men. I recently heard of a lonely girl who got involved with a younger man and was duped by him to require out a second mortgage on her home to "invest" in building a house (on land he owned) in Jamaica.

She was promised the 2 would live there together.

The sole drawback is that the two weren't married and she financed the majority of the construction of the home with him doing a little oversight during the building.

Once the home was built (which value her $one hundred eighty,000 USD), the 2 broke up. When she asked her former boyfriend to sell the house or refund her cash, he ignored her entirely and stopped returning her phone calls. Living in a foreign country, the girl had very little recourse by law as she had no contract nor marital covenant.

Being in a wholly totally different country with no written contract whatsoever, this player preyed on this foolish girl who was seduced by her emotions and promises of love to speculate her entire life's savings, children's inheritance and essentially her entire estate in an ex-boyfriend's new Caribbean home (which she didn't have any contractual interest nor a marital right to assert).

That was enough cash to send everyone of her youngsters and grandchildren to college. The girl never bought any of her children a car or house, but when some swish talking player elapsed prepared to kill her insecurity and emotional emptiness she spread out her entire checking account to be stolen right beneath her eye.

The ethical of this sad story is do not do business girls on love, because it may later turn out to be nothing a lot of than momentary infatuation, lust and you losing big time by the hands of a swish talker and player preying handsomely on you!

When the emotional flurry, butterflies and romance is gone you had better be sure you've got not signed away your personal estate and money investments.

Guard your heart and your purse when dating men. I don't care if you're during a "committed" relationship or not. I do not even care if you're engaged. Until you're legally married, you have got no business living together, sharing a home, nor bank account.

If you have got to finance a person's life - lose him asap! Tell him to urge lost and to urge a job. Don't invest in any man's dreams until you are married to him.

If you're so desperate and emotionally lonely that you are selling yourself (or rather paying / bribing guys to date and be with you), they're undeserving of you. They're purely playing you, making you no better than a pimp and the person the whore.

Get a footing and take a check up from the neck up. Hear your Pastor, family and friends. The first sign of danger is when you "love him thus a lot of" and start to feel "no one else understands... we're in love" etc. that you just isolate yourself and take away yourself from outside counsel and wisdom.

Nonsense! Get up and obtain your head screwed on straight before you lose it all.

Ladies Issues Speaker - Self Respect and Discernment to Deal With Players Preying on You

By: Jerry Nichols

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