How much deliberate intention do you put into radiating who you really are? Have you selected the specific qualities you want to BE is such a powerful way that you project those qualities easily to those you interact with?
I was at a networking mixer last night and followed my usual intention of talking at length with 2 or 3 people, rather than flitting from person to person making surface and forgettable conversation. The lady I spent the most time with is also a coach, so we talked about the focuses of our coaching businesses. Today she connected with me on LinkedIn saying I obviously connect with coaches wherever I go, so she wants to be part of my network. The qualities I am deliberately cultivating and therefore projecting are "successful coach" and "one who attracts successful people."
In contrast, one of the people my husband met at the mixer kept pushing his business the whole time my husband was just trying to get to know him. When we got home, I asked my husband if I should toss that guy's business card into the trash and he said, "Absolutely!" That man's behavior caused people to not want further contact with him.
I recently got an email from a friend, sharing a great blog post on a law of attraction topic. He said he immediately thought of me when he read it " because your energy is almost always so high and I know I can raise mine, if necessary, just by talking to you." The quality I am deliberately cultivating and therefore projecting is "person of high positive energy who can help others raise their vibration."
You are much more likely to project who you really are to those around you if you are consistent and deliberate about cultivating that vibration within you. What do people say about you? What do you want them to say?