The pain that comes with a relationship breaking can cut right through the heart and can make most of us do the most stupid things that we should not do. The reality most of the things that we do are actually pushing the person that we are trying to get back with, instead of bringing them closer to us.
Sometimes we want a relationship to work so bad to the point where we give up the person that we are to make it work. We compromise who we are to please them, and in the long run it does not work.
Here are the more common mistakes:
Being too nice in a relationship just not do much justice for the relationship. If anything your partner might even end up taking advantage of your niceness, and in the end you end feeling used.
Giving your ex everything that they demand will not make you hang on to the relationship. A relationship is give and take, and you cannot be the one who is doing the giving all the time.
Relationships need to be kept exciting. They are boring in nature, especially after the initial excitement. It then becomes important for both partners to make the effort to make it interesting.
Relationships are hard and even at times when you think you will be someone forever, you still need to work hard at it. If you are struggling, get help or at least try and communicate with your partner. ignoring issues in a relationship will just make the problems bigger so communicate.