Marriage should not be considered a simple affair involving two persons who want to be together. Too often persons want to satisfy their ego and physical needs. Sex become paramount when attraction and emotions run high. When lust becomes overwhelming premarital sex can become a priority and trust may be established through sexual encounters.
Then there is the cultural factor which may yield or inhibit easy communication and relationship. Here the parties must try to understand each other and peculiarities must be estimated and evaluated, Whereby, food, housekeeping and attire must be on the family agenda.
Entering the Family should be a delicate issue and the agreeable parties should try to consider the acceptance level of their future in-laws and their coping mechanisms in times of challenge.Whenever issues arise Families may try to intervene and their actions may pose a threat or may be unwelcome at times.
Given these considerations the Marriage may be an institution for the couple to enter and establish their relationship and promote bonding for the remainder of their lives. Fostering the foundation of a happy marriage is very important and they need the input, in terms of assistance from relatives and friends
Last but not least, socialty in terms of learning from the attitudes of each lover is essential in the marriage. For example, there may be misgivings whenever situations arise and it is the strength of character which emerge. Therefore, for any marriage to work out consideration must be given to many factors and not romanticizing which is just a preview of what is expected to come.