More Motivation May Be What You Really Need Right Now

I am always puzzled by the fact that most guys would rather learn some secret tactic

to get better at attracting women as opposed to learning the fundamentals that really drive female attraction in the first place. While it may be a nice idea to suppose that one could learn some easy tactic that would make themselves become almost irresistible to women, you'd have to really be living in a dream world to think that the fundamentals don't matter one bit. Really, when you look at the guys who do get it and know what it means to do well with women, they understand the fundamentals.

One of the more basic fundamentals is that guys who come across as being highly motivated to achieve things in life tend to also attract more women. They find that it is easier to get a woman to pay attention to you when it seems like you have a lot to offer her. So, that may be one of those things that you might want to focus on right now more than anything else. The more motivated you are to achieve greater things in your life, the more likely it is that you are going to find women attracted to you.

So, how does a guy get that kind of motivation?

1) You need to have dreams and aspirations.

When you don't have any dreams or aspirations, then you pretty much are just trying to get through the day and that is not a fun way to live. You won't find it as easy to feel highly motivated when you are just trying to make ends meet and get through the day. As lofty as they might seem, it's wise to nurture any dreams and aspirations that you might have, especially if you want to give off the vibe of being a guy who is going places in life.

2) You need to become more of an action taker and not an action talker.

Lots of guys will talk about the things that they want to do or are going to do. Not as many will actually take action and do those things that they talk about. If you truly want to become more motivated, then you have to become one of those guys who does what he says he will do. That will help you create momentum and that is going to help you push through any hard times.

3) Give yourself time to have some enjoyment in life.

You can sap your own motivation by becoming a guy who is all work and no play at all. You want to become an action taker, but at the same time, you still want to do some fun things. A well rounded approach is going to help you feel more motivated and the more fun that you give yourself whilst taking action along the way, the more unstoppable you will become. Women seem to like that kind of thing, so if you want to attract women easily, that might be the way to go. Remember that the vibe that you give off matters, so having that combination of being highly motivated and knowing how to have fun is going to reap many rewards for you.

by: Dennis Lewisten

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