Nlp - Packing For Your Destination

When you want to go for a holiday, you probably spend some time gathering what you will need when you reach your destination

. You will spend a time to make a plan, but most of your excitement is saved for reaching your destination.

It is not funny when we spend so much time figuring out how to reach our goals and so little time preparing for what we will do when we get there! It's as though we believe that just arriving will be enough.

We would have to run out to shop for clothes that were warmer or cooler, more dressed up or more dressed down. We might need a parka or a bathing suit. We might need our favorite foods or a good book to read.

In a typical goal-setting process, we assume that we will know what to pack for our destination. But how we know we want a goal and what we will need to achieve it? We seldom ask what we'll need as a result of achieving it.

We may tell the people we manage what we expect of them and what they need to do to meet our expectations. How often do we also tell them what they need to prepare now so that they'll be ready for what follows they meet the goal?

What else could we be doing so that we arrive at our destination prepared for what comes next? Ask yourself this question Who would know what I will need when I get where I am going?. When someone pops into your mind, allow yourself to be curious about what they know that you want to know.

Take a moment and notice that you already have a better sense of what you will need when you get there. You might even be surprised to know that you have already begun to prepare so that when you arrive, you will be able to 'put on' the qualities you need.

You know other people who will know what you need. Step into the shoes of two or three of them. Enjoy knowing what they know as you enjoy having the strengths, skills and beliefs that they have.

Of course, you need a good map to get you where you want to go. But isn't it easier to imagine yourself on that path now that you know that everything you need to thrive after your achievement is being gathered and prepared?

It's useful to have a backup plan! It's also useful to have a jump-forward plan that tells you how you will feel, and what you will need, when you are busy enjoying life after achievement.

Prepare to enjoy that destination when you reach it. You'll find yourself get there faster when you pack the right stuff.

by: Ben Tien

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