One Of The Many Myths About Seduction

There are plenty of myths that tend to circulate around the topic of seduction

. Plenty of times, guys who just don't know any better will fall for these myths and then they don't understand why they are not doing any better with women than they were before they learned them. Of course, they don't realize that these are myths in the first place, so they basically just keep trying the same things over and over again and expect that one day they are going to get things right. So, what is one of the many myths about seduction that I am going to talk about in this article?

Well, it is the myth that seduction is all about sex and sex alone. That may be true for the guys that just don't get it (pun intended on that one), but it's certainly not true for the guys that are successful at seducing women. The guys who get it understand that it is more than just hoping to have sex with a woman. It is more about connecting with her and having a great time that eventually leads to a sexual scenario later on. Sometimes the later on isn't really that much later on, but that is another story altogether.

Why does it matter that you know that this is a myth if you are hoping to get good at being able to attract and seduce a woman?

Because the guys who walk around with the obvious intention of trying just to get a woman into bed for sex tend to be obvious to any woman who is experienced enough to have dealt with more than a few of these types in the past. That includes most attractive women, because most guys who are trying hard to get laid do try to approach the hot women first and usually get shot down and have to settle for something else later on in the night. One of the reasons that guys who are just trying to get laid have such a hard time actually getting laid is... they rush the entire process and that ends up backfiring on them. Really, I could even say that these guys don't really have much of a process at all and that is a major factor for their lack of success.

Time and time again, I have seen that the men who are good at bedding women and who don't have to be so desperate about getting laid don't have the attitude that all they are after is just the sex. It's part of it, that is for sure, it's just not all of it. And that tends to resonate well with most women. Your average really good looking woman that you meet in a club or a bar doesn't mind having a hook up if the mood suits her, but she does not want to be just a conquest to boost some guy's ego.

by: Chris Tyler

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