I believed our marriage was the stuff that dreams were made of
. I thought we were both happy. Why did she cheat on me? I still can't believe this is happening.
Being one of the men, it was a big crush on your ego knowing you've been fooled and it made you less of the man you were. It's normal to feel uneasy and in the state of urgency to know the answers to your questions.
What is the Truth Behind Women's Unfaithfulness
Let's cite some reasons behind the incapability of women to maintain the faithfulness in their marriage. I'm sure it's a big difference from men's reasons.
He had seen the inner me.
He appreciated me.
He made no demands.
He let me realized that I am a woman of worth.
He made me feel beautiful.
I felt my being is restored.
He showed me where I belong.
I was happy to feel the importance of my presence.
With women it's all about feeling. Not emotion. It's not the she loves the other man. It's that she loves the way the other man makes her feel. There is a huge difference and that difference can make all the difference in the world when it comes to your marriage.
The Truth about Women's Risking Point
Generally, cheating is something done due to circumstances encountered by couples which triggered the urge to shift attention to something or someone. Women just like any other human, are also weak especially when they don't feel anymore their essence. But, eventually when things got mixed up and they'd feel like they are already drowning deeper that they can't breathe, that's the waking point because the level of pain is already climbing up until it overlapped that numbness.
It just needed follow up from you to help her get back to the reality. You must be the one to erase the image of the other guy who is about to overtake you.
The Reasons Why She Cheated
The issue here is not concerned with being in love or who's truly in love or not. It is all about feelings. Your wife obviously wanted to feel her value through gestures which you failed to show. Now, this guy was just right in time. And it happened.
Marriage is not something you'll just throw away just because of the failure of the other party or both. When you feel that it is turning to be boring and unchallenging, find means to revive it. Keep the feeling intact by doing sweet and pleasant gestures just to assure your partner that the love is never diminished by time, instead it grows.