Proven Method to Get My Ex Back - The Lies We Tell Ourselves
Are you too desperate?
Are you too desperate?
Whether the break-up was yesterday or last month you must be desperate to get back together! I'm pretty sure that's how you stumbled onto this article. Hold on a minute! Sit back, let your head cool and let your emotions level out. You are not going to die without this lover of yours! Sometimes we find ourselves in a state of denial and we tell ourselves lies.
Without him/her, I think I'll die!
I'll never find anyone better than my ex!
My ex was the only good thing about my life!
My ex righted everything that was wrong with me!
Extreme emotions.
These emotions are normal roller coaster emotions that you will experience in most break-ups. However, it is hard to deal with and so you will try to justify the way that you feel. What might be more helpful to you in the long run is to look at the break-up from an objective point of view. In other words, think about the good and bad times in your relationship with your former lover. Try to weigh the good verses the bad and come to some sort of decision on whether or not there is a great reason to reconcile. Some may find through analysis that the relationship is not worth salvaging.
You can't decide.
Were you and your ex consistently happy together? Did you fight more often then was necessary? Do you find that your lives are both heading in the same direction? You are not going to be able to mold your ex into the perfect person, and lying to yourself about the whole thing will be bad in the long run. Make sure to give it plenty of time. If you have the opportunity, get together with your ex for a casual meal at lunch or for coffee or tea. Talk about the highlights of your relationship and the funny times!
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Proven Method to Get My Ex Back - The Lies We Tell Ourselves
