Putting the KNOW back into Relationships!

Putting the KNOW back into Relationships!

Knowing the Purpose of Relationship

Relationship is a very powerful word. It is what defines and enablesconnection. There are many different types of relationships: platonic, business, marital, open and the list can go on. One thing is definite, in order for a relationship to even exist there must be at least two parties or objects involved. When relationships (healthy and positive) are established there must be common ground, or a connection is impossible to be made. Common ground and compatibility must be present or there would be no reason to make the connection. Relationships need to be defined and understood. Every living human being in this vast universe is looking for someone to relate to. Whether it be relating to God, animals or people (including people in television land). The bottom line is that we all seek and long for a relationship. The issue that I am discovering is that the true essence and purpose of relationships has been lost and forgotten. This is why many people find themselves connected to the wrong people and they end up in wrong places. Then they ask themselves where I went wrong in this relationship. If a person is not fully clear on why they are seeking a relationship, and if they are not clear on what they need from the relationship, then it is safe to say that they are not fully ready for getting into a relationship. I believe that it is time to put purpose, knowledge and understanding back into the relationship equation!

Know what you want and why!

In this age, the term relationship is thrown around like a ball during a basketball game. Once a threat appears it gets tossed into the hands of another. Everybody playing the game gets a turn and scores. The ball never really finds a stable place, it just gets placed in the hands of those deemed as skilled players. Every person seeking a relationship needs to understand why they desire to be in one. On an intimate or personal level, relationships are suppose to solve the alone problem. But there are many people who are in a relationship and still feel as though they are alone. There are many reasons for this, one of which is the fact that the expectations and needs were not properly communicated. When a person gets involved with another individual clarity concerning expectations, needs, wants and desires must be communicated. The problem with this is that many people are not clear themselves on what they want, so it's impossible to share them with someone else. Many people get in relationships and find out the person isn't who the portrayed themselves to be, some put on a performance and after they gain what they want, they don't perform any more. Others get in relationships and have no clue that relationships take work, therefore they don't perform at all. People end up wasting their time, life, emotions and even their money on a relationship that was going no where from the beginning. They failed to see this because they were blinded by physical attraction and temporary emotions-to gain immediate fulfillment and some sense of satisfaction. All of these are common and detrimental mistakes that are made when a person doesn't know what they want and why they want a relationship.

Get Smart!

We all need to evaluate ourselves and personal objectives. It is smart to find out what you need and want from others before plunging into a relationship head or genitalia first! Be honest with yourself and others about your needs, wants and desires. It isn't smart to make connections that do not compliment who you are and where you are going in life. It is not another person's responsibility to validate you. If you are looking to make a connection with someone because you feel like a nobody, it is better that you step on the breaks and gain a positive self image. Going into a relationship with the wrong idea and perspective will only cause hurt and disappointment. Know who you are going in and even know who you are coming out. Every relationship should support you, benefit you and make you become better, stronger and wiser than you are today. Get smart, and put the KNOW back into your relationships and relationship journey! Save yourself a lot of hurt, time, disappointment, frustration, irritation and money!

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