Recipe after breakups
What do we do after we say goodbye?
What do we do after we say goodbye?I did breakup several times without thinking or loosing control, so that's why now I know what I suppose to do when a situation like this comes to my door unexpected.
When I breakup seams like the world comes to an end. Like nothing else matter and there are no things for me to do. I'm in a mood and situation like I wish to do the worst things, like making a bag from the skin of the boyfriend.
Lucidly like a bull in the arena, which has already grossed more arrows in the bottom ribs and nose. I was looking for a desperate solution to get out of this temporary insanity, but because it's not like is my first "fight" and I believe I now the perfect cocktail to get over the breakup.
So I said to my self that maybe this mix will help some of you to feel better, like I do.
Releasing the feelings.
After the first second that we are saying goodbye to each other, I split in two, the part with no communication how so ever, with the one that makes me suffer. Because any contact how so ever only prolongs the agony.
Sport
It's the first thing I do after the breakup. I forget about the reasonable recipe with 3 times/week and I go to the gym 5 time/week. I release the demons inside me and in a couples of weeks I look stunning.
Alcohol
I'll have it in medium dose with friends and in small dose when I'm alone. It helps and I don't mind to have a little bit for a while, until I recover.
SEX
If at that moment isn't any place in my heart for others, I like to have some good sex with new people, that aren't any strings attach. Or if I don't find anyone I like I watch some porn videos and handle myself.
Sleeping
I like to sleep a lot, helps me to forget everything also I have a break from everything, sometimes I take a nap in the middle of the day and I try not to get fired from my job.
Working a lot
I'm working over hours, I makes all kind of stuffs all the time, to don't have a second free. After I finish I sleep like a baby, how I said above.
Traveling
When I breakup I always like to travel, I take a a trip in the country or outside of it. Does very good to brain and body, plus I know that I don't have a change of running into him. Like what will be the probability of meeting him in Prague or Brussels.
Work
Well it's time to get a promotion, anyway in the time that I was stuck on this not working relationship, I put my work in the second place and I didn't do things like I suppose to to. So after I do a something amazing I'll be in the center of attention and people will give me a great value to my work.
So if I do all of this for a while, I recover pretty well and I feel good to myself. It's not working to do just some of the things, because I tried. So for be it's good to do it all. But now if you have a recipe to get back in the game, let me know!
Recipe after breakups
By: Mary Helen