Relationship Advice - The Emotion of Exposure

Author: Colin Martin

Author: Colin Martin

Sharing your secrets, hopes and dreams with your lover is very important for a strong relationship. Letting someone in to our protected souls is one of the greatest gifts you can give or receive. But it can be a very scary thing to do. The level of trust is overwhelming. The emotion of exposure is fear. If you find that fear is not an issue, you are on the right track. If you find the fear is too great, you need to keep in mind a few simple things about yourself. In a true love relationship, your partner is willing to accept all the pieces of you. Each individual moment of your life adds up to the complete perfect picture of your identity. Some moments, from your perspective, are better than others. But in reality each moment completes you. In a true love relationship, there is no embarrassment, no shame. The liberation you feel when you absolutely know you can share anything about yourself with your partner creates a lifetime of lasting happiness. You know in your heart that you are good. You know in your heart that you can be anything you want to be, and you will be accepted. A friend of mine lost his Father to cancer a couple of years back. In settling his Father's affairs, his Mother uncovered many secrets and hidden aspects that she never knew about her Husband. Out of all the things that they had been through in their marriage, 42 years in total, these secrets destroyed her. She lost all confidence that her marriage had been something special. She lost all hope that she was ever worthy of being trusted, loved and appreciated. She passed away a year later in utter depression. 42 years of her life meant nothing if she knew her Husband couldn't even show his true self to her. If she only had the last few moments together with him to finally get to know the only man she had ever loved. If you think sharing your secrets may embarrass or expose you, your with the wrong person. Think about the cost of your lover never really knowing the real you. It would crush them. They have given you their life, their soul, their trust. Repay them with the greatest gift you have ever been given...the whole you. How do you create an everlasting quality for your relationship today? For nearly 20 years one man, Colin Martin, has searched for and found the number one secret to building an exceptional romantic relationship. The answer doesn't lie in the endless volumes of self help books and repetitive talk shows...but within yourself! About the Author:

Colin Martin has given over 2000 personal consultations to singles and couples alike to improve how they view their relationships.

He lives in Virginia Beach with his Son.

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