Relationship Reality - She Is Going To Confuse You Once In A While

There are some realities about relationships that you just have to accept or else you are going to go crazy

. One of the ones that seems to puzzle most guys is when they think that they are getting mixed signals from a woman that they are dating. When that happens, you may want to know what you can do to make those mixed messages stop, but the reality is - they probably are not going to.

It just comes with the territory.

You don't want to whine about it. That's what guys who stay at home because they don't have a girlfriend do. What you want to do is to get to a point where you are so confident about who you are and what you have to bring to the table, that you know that you are the kind of guy she wants to be with. See, most of the time when guys complain about getting mixed messages from a woman they are dating, it's because they are feeling insecure.

They are worried that they might lose her and that scares them and they don't want that to happen.

That is understandable, but you know what?

When you really feel like you are someone who brings value into her life, you won't worry about that too much. If you want to do well in your relationship, you have to let some things just wash over you because they aren't really that big of a deal in the grand scheme of things.

One thing that you may want to keep in mind, is that if she is doing it a lot to you, that CAN be an indication that she's not quite sure how she really feels about you. If that is the case and you want to make sure that you don't lose her, then all you have to do is step your game up so that you know that you are making her happy and she has no reason to rethink things.

Another thing that happens when you are getting what you believe to be mixed signals from a woman you are seeing, is just the usual miscommunication that happens between men and women. She may not even be intentionally doing it. You may just be a little bit off with her in your communication and if that is the case, you just have to work on that area a little bit and everything will be fine.

When you are prepared for the fact that things are not always going to be the way that you want them to be, and that there are things that you need to learn as the guy - you will find that your relationships tend to go a lot smoother. This is especially true if you learn how to communicate with your girlfriend, because most relationship problems stem from a lack of communication and understanding. Yeah, she may give you mixed signals and confuse you from time to time, but you know what? That's part of the fun if you have the right mindset for it!

by: A.J. Smith

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