SITUATIONS & ADJUSTMENTS INTERCONNECTED-
SITUATIONS & ADJUSTMENTS INTERCONNECTED-
SITUATIONS & ADJUSTMENTS INTERCONNECTED-
Life is nothing but a challenge. The experience of being alive is superb, positive and satisfying. Our existence is our power. We always face complex situations in our lives. Life, itself is complex consisting of organized situations. When I say organized situation, I mean to say interconnection. Difficulty that arise every time maybe different, but these difficulties are actually interconnected. The problem that starts once certainly brings out new troubles. I have made an interesting note on how these situations influence on people and how they react or behave. For instance, let's take a simple example Haven't we observed that when we wake up late in the morning, what all things go wrong the whole day?
You got up late today, you are late for the office too, and then when you are all set to leave, you see that your breakfast is not ready. The immediate reaction is getting angry on your wife. You leave to office without breakfast. On the way you remember that you forgot to pick your mobile. In hurry you missed your train, and then the taxi driver charges you more. You start quarrelling with him and in this heads to a fight, and when you reach the office the fight continues with your boss.
Did you notice one thing here; it just started with a long sleep which spoiled your whole day and all the agony you had gone through were interconnected. Not only were the problems interconnected but also the behavioral changes. Stressful situation can also be bring about behavioral changes.
Problems were: Waking up late Shouting on you wife forgetting you mobile Missing the train Quarrelling & Fighting with driver/boss etc are interconnected.
The behavioral changes were: Anger Irritation Quarrel - fight etc, passed by you in a consecutive manner, i.e. interconnected.
A stupid mistake on a normal day can be let off with a simple "Don't let it happen again, ok?" Then I am sure on the next day it would automatically get more suitable & fitting. The whole exercise of this subject is for pointing out the outcome of situations on how people interact with each other. Difficult situations can occur when we are disturbed. Normally, disturbance or frustration happens when we are faced with blockage in the process of achieving goals, for example when we have fought strongly and failed, when we are obstructed in doing something we considered to be most important, or when we are in desperate need of something. Difficult situation would obviously occur when we have experienced a shock, such as threatening incidents, Sudden deaths, serious illness, getting into accidents etc. This will certainly shake our stabilities.
ADJUSTMENTS - Making or becoming suitable; i.e. the process of adapting to something is called adjustment.
As it is said, the process of adapting to something is adjustment, so we need to examine and come to a decision whether an adjustment is required at a particular situation. All the living beings on the earth have to adjust with the difficulties in their lives. Depending upon the situations they adjust themselves. As a human being we can only observe our adjustments, but certainly every living being has to adjust themselves in some or the other way. From the day we exist in this world, we learn to adjust naturally. A baby in womb learns to adjust him/herself in the space given by the mother. A new born baby may need help for sometime, but within few days he/she learns to adjust.
More the pressure more the adjustments process becomes difficult. The people who have gone through life's sufferings, difficulties will be more matured, stable and quick in dealing with life's issues. They know how to act and react in situations; these action and reactions are nothing but adjustments.
Adjustments can be done to the situation without uttering any demands and without any efforts to change the surroundings. Compromising, negotiating, substituting are some of the way of adjustments. Positive thinking can teach you how to adjust.
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