Secrets To Successfully Approaching Women
Hey you! Yes you! Welcome to my guide on approaching women
. I'm about to share all I know about how to approach women.
The thing with approaching women is that its mostly not about what you say. Approaching women is mostly about demonstrating certain things in your approach.
To have the approach come across right it needs to demonstrate 3 features, and these are that you are safe, cool and sincere.
Mind you, I have spent years studying how to approach. I have tried, seen and tested (even taught) every single method of approaching women on planet earth. I have found out that 95% of the stuff out there is unnecessary fluff. I've also found 5% of the stuff brings 95% of the results. What I am about to present to you is the 5% that brings 95% of the results. These 3 are the key things to apply.
And one more thing... What you want to remember is the rule "Its about what they think you mean by what you say, not what you thought you said". In other words, it doesn't matter if you tried to be funny, but everyone thought you were being dorky. The recipient of the message is always right. If women get you wrong, its your responsibility to change your message until women read these 3 key traits in you.
1. You are not a pervert
By far, the best way to guarantee never getting with a woman is creeping her out in your approach. The thing you want to focus on most when approaching is looking and feeling natural to the woman. She wants your approach to be non-threatening and moderate.
To be as nonthreatening to a woman as possible, you need to be as normal as possible. It means you need to talk to her as if its the most normal thing in the world. You're not dismantling a bomb or risking your life, you're just talking to some woman.
The secret here is to just act as if its an old friend. How do you approach a woman you recognize from many years back? Let's say its someone you went to high school with? How do you approach her? What expression and vibe do you have? This is how you want to approach all women! Its what I call the old-friends trick, and it works. With this trick, I always get great reactions in approaching women
2. You're not an asocial geek
One of the things that women find extremely unattractive is if you're socially unadjusted. They can tell by the way you communicate and how you converse with them. They can tell, just by the way you speak, if you have tons of friends, or you're a total dweeb.
How?
Well, this message is firmly encoded in the way you talk to the woman. If talking to many people is not common to you, then you will show a certain level of anxiety and unease. A lot of this would be solved by step number 1 I explained above, but not all of it.
The best way I've found of appearing cool around women is to be cool. Ya, revolutionary thought I know! But you see, this is the secret! Most of the best stuff is simple. In order to appear cool, the easiest way is to become cool.
The trick to actually becoming cooler is to just build a cool lifestyle. Get rid of anything in your life that is boring, stupid or you hate doing. Get more and more activities and hobbies that are social and that you can brag or talk about. Stuff that you would be proud to admit you do in your spare time. You will find over time you get more and more positive and cool around people.
3. Being genuine is not easy, it requires training
This is one of those things in life that's easier said then done. A lot of people say just be yourself, and things will handle themselves. But this is such a vague advice that if I hear one more time, I'll pull my hear out!
My best method to becoming more sincere and genuine around women is to simply change your mindset. Sincerity is really hard when you have a backhanded intent. If the intent in your head is "I have to pick this woman up", you will not come across as genuine. A much better mindset to have is "I'm just approaching this woman to see what she's like, and see if we naturally click, if we don't, oh well, wasn't meant to be". With this alternative mindset you'll find yourself a lot more relaxed and a lot more sincere.
by: Alex Decoto
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