If you really want to avoid divorce, then the first step is trying to convice your spouse to give things another try
. Although it isn't the easiest thing to do, it truly is needed if you want a chance at avoiding a potential divorce A divorce can be stopped at virtually any stagebefore its filed or just before it needs the final paperwork. The earlier you stop a divorce, the more likely it is that the divorce wont be restarted, at least not anytime soon.
To stop a divorce, you must convince the person to give the relationship another chance. If you have been begging the other person to give you another try or pleading for them to get back together with you, stop now.
It may help the other person to avoid moving forward with a divorce prematurely if you start acting and behaving more maturely Genuinely explain that you honestly dont want the divorce and you want another chance in a calm way. Screaming and yelling will not help you chances and your spouse already knows this. It is important to make your spouse aware that you are genuinely hurt and sad and that it is your desire to try and work things out If you change your attitude and behavior, you may be quite surprised by how your spouse or partner reactsYou can also show a mature side of yourself that the other person might not have seen over the last several weeks and recommend marriage or relationship counseling to stop divorce.
Counseling has worked for millions of couples and your relationship could certainly benefit from it, too. Try to get your spouse or partner to agree to counseling before they actually file for a divorce so that you have time to try and work on your relationship and avoid divorce altogether.