The Mistake I Made to Catch My Cheating Spouse and How You Can Save Yourself From Making it Too

The Mistake I Made to Catch My Cheating Spouse and How You Can Save Yourself From Making it Too

Do you want to be able to know for sure if your spouse is cheating on you in as little time as possible?

First I want to tell you a story about when I had to catch my cheating spouse: We had been happily together for over a year, or so I thought, when I began to become suspicious that there was another man. At first, I felt terrible for even thinking such a thought. I thought there must be something wrong with me for not being able to unconditionally trust my wife.

But as time went on my suspicion grew...

Finally one night she didn't come home. I was worried sick, and it wasn't until 2 in the morning that she finally got home. No call to tell me she'd be late, no nothing. When she got home, do you know what she told me?

"I had to work late."

Now, I'm sure you can see how that sort of pushed me over the edge, and this is where I started making mistakes. I became so emotional, so distraught. I was so full of rage and jealousy, I just couldn't think clearly at all, and so I handled the situation extremely poorly.

Does that story sound like maybe it could happen to you? If you suspect your spouse of cheating, and you want to catch them, don't make the mistakes that I did!

I'm going to tell you what I should have done to catch my cheating spouse.

First: I should have detached myself from the situation emotionally as soon as I thought she might be cheating.

Look at it like this, if she is cheating on you you're in a position to think clearly and handle the ordeal with your head. You'll make much better decisions (because we all know that when we think with emotion it rarely ever ends well).

And if she's not cheating on you?

Well you didn't put yourself through an emotional hell trying to figure out the truth, all just to find that there's nothing to worry about.

But of course, if you suspect that you're spouse is cheating on you, then there's an 85% chance that you're correct.

The second thing that I should have done to catch my cheating spouse? I should've done some research. I should've looked around online to try and find common signs of an affair, maybe find a guide of some sort.

The thing is this: catching your spouse cheating doesn't have to be hard!

Here are some common signs:

1. Your sex life has a noticeable decline. If you've noticed that over a matter of weeks your spouse has become a lot less interested in sex, then that could very well be cause for suspicion that an affair is going on.

2. Your spouse suddenly knows things about stuff that they shouldn't. For example, if you're wife is having an affair, and she suddenly knows about sports or something like that, and she suddenly seemed to gain this knowledge in a few weeks, then that could be cause for suspicion. Same goes for husbands, they might suddenly know about some weird TV show, or something like that.

So now that you know some signs, what are you going to do next?

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