Ways to Know You Should Not Take Your Ex Back - Not Wanting Your Ex Back
Ways to Know You Should Not Take Your Ex Back - Not Wanting Your Ex Back
If your ex is trying to win your heart again yet you only want to run, it is a sure way to realize you do not want your ex back. Here are some tips in realizing that your ex is not someone you ever want to be with ever again.
Calling all the time
Your ex is calling you several times a day. This is bugging the crap out of you and driving you crazy. You might want to consider changing your telephone number or blocking your ex's number. Just hope your ex does not realize the convenience of disposable cell phones in their quest of talking with you.
Sending letters and text messages
If you are receiving numerous letters informing you how much they miss you or text messages on a daily basis, this is another sign of obsessive behavior. If you come out to your car after your shift at work only to discover love notes from your ex, this is another sure sign in knowing you should not take your ex back.
Stalking
Is your ex following you around? Is your ex watching every move you make? This is obvious your ex has literally lost their mind. You might want to consider a restraining order. Stalking is not a positive venture for anyone to engage within when trying to get their exes back and this reinforces the reasoning why you should not take your ex back.
Involving your friends in the breakup
Your ex is now bugging your friends. They are incessantly being pestered to hang out with your ex or to speak to your ex. You should advise your friends to not take your exes call and do not hang out with your ex. Your ex obviously has an agenda and it does not entail wanting to remain friends with your circle of friends. Your ex wants to keep an eye on you as well as be kept abreast on your every move. This is yet another reason why you should not take your ex back.
Involving family members in the breakup
Calling your family members trying to be friends with them. This will only get your family members pissed off at you and will drive a wedge between you and your family. This should be a common sense factor in knowing that you should not take your ex back after this foolish move on your ex's part.
Dating your best friend
If your ex begins dating your best friend, rest assured this is an effort to make you jealous. Eventually the best friend will figure out the agenda of your ex but if this does occur, you and your best friend obviously have issues. These issues need to be worked out between both of you, not you and your best friend and the ex.
If your ex is calling your workplace this is a great way for you to lose your job. Do not allow your ex to speak to you while you are at work. Your professional life is yours and should not be ammunition for your ex to speak with you or to create problems for you. This is a huge factor in knowing why you should not take your ex back.