What Are You Waiting For? Win The Girl Back!
What Are You Waiting For? Win The Girl Back!
Did you know that girls are statistically more likely to take back an ex than date a new guy? This means that even if you just had a big breakup, you can still learn how to win the girl back. The reason for this is pure nostalgia. Girls miss what they once had.
Right after a breakup, the girl is going to be angry. She had probably been building up all the reasons why she should call it off for a while, trying to convince herself she would be better off without you. To get her back, all you have to do is convince her she's wrong. While that sounds like a very difficult task, it's not as hard as you may think. All you have to do is remember the good times you shared, then help her remember those times as well.
First, you may have to get her to even talk to you if it was a particularly bad breakup. To do this, you'll need to first convince her you want to be friends. This may take a while, but if you are patient, you can do it. Remind her how close you were and how well the two of you got to know each other.
Even if you can't be romantically involved, you still want that closeness in your life. Saying things like that will convince her that you really want to be friends, while also making her remember some of the good times you shared.
Once you've won her over as a friend, try to keep doing the things you enjoyed doing while you were dating, without pressuring her to do anything she doesn't want to do. Make sure you start out small, just little things like a certain show or restaurant, just to get the idea in her head that the two of you had a lot of little good times together.
After some time, you'll notice her really warming up to the idea of doing small activities with you. This is when you go in for the kill. First, let her know that there was something really special you wanted to do again, even if it is just as friends. Then re-enact some special moment the two of you shared together. This could be a first date or maybe a really good birthday or anniversary.
The trick is to surprise her without blindsiding her. You want her to know that you're doing something a little special but she should not feel pressured into anything. Let her know you thought of doing this just to relive a special moment, again, even if it's just as friends. Just don't let her know exactly what you'll be doing.
By reliving all those special little moments, she would already be at war with herself, wondering if she did the right thing. When you relive a moment that she truly treasures, she'll realize just how happy she had been with you and the war will be over.
Just don't rush that special moment. If she's worth enough to take your time and plan out something this special, she's worth taking the time to do it right.