You Can Have a Good Relationship - Here's What You Can Do
You Can Have a Good Relationship - Here's What You Can Do
Everyone wants that someone special that they can share their lives with, and grow old together. It doesn't matter who you are or where you come from, everybody deserves a good relationship. A good relationship is not yours of right, but you can have a good relationship if you are prepared to work for it. And as I have said many times, taking the effort to make your loved one happy, which in turn makes you happy, can hardly be viewed as work.
I hope that you are all aware that the love stories that you read in the books or see on the screen are just that, stories. Unfortunately we all live in the real world. If you go into a relationship with unrealistic expectations, then you will not have much of a relationship. You can have a good relationship if you both look to make the best of your situation, and do your best to build the best relationship that you can.
Your partner is not perfect, you are not perfect, we all have our faults. You both fell in love with each other because you fell for the unique individual that you are. We have our good points and our bad points, you cannot choose which wants your partner can keep. Do not try to change your partner, they may have some personal habits that could do with some work, but if you try to change them into something that they are not, then they are no longer the person that you fell in love with, will you still love them? You can have a good relationship if you accept each other for who you are, that's the person that you fell in love with.
As you build your relationship you have a great time getting to know each other. You go on dates, vacations, and you can talk for hours. As you become used to each other it is far to easy to take each other for granted, when this happens your relationship starts to go stale and boring. If you want to have a good relationship, you have to keep the spark alive. You can have a good relationship if you share your lives together, if you spend quality time together, if you just talk, then you keep it all interesting, your relationships holds on to the spark and stays exciting.
One thing to remember is that you are never to old to date. Why should you only have all the fun at the start of the relationship. You want to do something together at least once a week. Having a bit of YOU time will help you to reconnect, to unwind from the stresses of everyday life, to enjoy being in each others company, and this is important, to have fun. You can share interests, look for new things to do together, it doesn't matter what you do, so long as you do it together.
If you have read any of my previous articles you will know that I am a great believer in spending quality time together. Well you also need to be able to spend time apart. You can have a good relationship if you pursue your own interests and spend time with your friends. It brings new thoughts and ideas to the table, it helps to develop you as individuals, and it gives you something to talk about. Your friends and interests are a part of who you are, and ultimately goes into making you that interesting person that your partner was drawn to.
Letting issues, that could have been dealt with early, is a sure way to have a miserable relationship. If an issue comes up, then deal with it. If you made a mistake or said something unfortunate in the heat of the moment, take responsibility for what you did, admit that you were wrong and apologize. You are both very different individuals, and as such you have your own perspectives on issues, you might have conflicting views and you could both be right, you might even be wrong. When you were single, the world revolved around you, all of your decisions were based on how they would affect you. Now that you are in a relationship you cannot just think about what is best for you the individual, you also have to consider your partner. You can have a happy relationship if you both focus on what is best for the relationship. When you have arguments, use them as a chance to resolve a problem together, and as a result, get closer together.
You can have a good relationship if you both focus on creating the best relationship possible. Be realistic about what you want and expect from the relationship. Talk to each other, find out their wants and needs, and how you can help them. Have fun together, take pleasure in being in each others company, and remember, you are never to old to go on dates. Accept each other for who you are, and walk into the future, together.
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