The term "wuji" (pronounced "woo-zhee") is an important concept in Taoism and Chinese culture. It means a state of harmony and balance -- perfect peace, emptiness, stillness.When everything begins moving and you lose balance, you also lose wuji.In the Taoist view of the universe, if we were to look at it from a modern scientific view, the universe was in a state of wuji just before the Big Bang. There was a state of perfect peace and then all...more
Emotional psychological abuse from your intimate partner is as clear as the day is long when on the receiving end. But for the bystanders, it's ambiguous.Some people will even tell you that when you are the abused, on some level, you become a bystander. It is as though you take yourself out of the line of fire simply to survive the blows of spousal emotional abuse, and ultimately exist.You hate being hated. Your tire of being told how inadequate...more
Coping With an Emotional Affair - 3 Steps to Help Bring Healing Coping with an emotional affair can be more difficult than dealing with a physical affair, believe it or not. Although both kinds of affairs can easily breakup a relationship, an emotional affair is more about companionship, love and the heart instead of lust and physical attraction.The emotional affair is a little more difficult to address because it usually evolves over time and a sharing or bonding develops between the two individuals and before you know it emotional needs are being met. As time goes on instead of confiding in his or her partner and drawing closer there is a distancing and disconnect that starts to happen. The person looks for companionship and emotional support outside of the existing relationship.There are some signs that may tip you off regarding the affair underway such as; spending a significant amount of time online or sending text messages in a very private manner; keeping things away from you such as credit card bills or phone bills etc that might highlight inappropriate activities; consistently lying and about whereabouts. Although there may be suspicious activities it doesn't...more
If you think that your streaming tears will attract your ex back into your life then you could simply run dry without any response from your ex. Even if your ex does respond favorably to your tears, this pitiful union will not last long.You must act strong to win back not only the love of your ex but also the respect if you want your new...more
If your ex has shown you his/her back then there is no point in pleading for a reunion. He/She might be blinded by rage and frustration, and might simply walk farther away from you.Instead, use these 7 tips to make your ex turn around and want you emotionally again.Make a plan to wriggle into your ex's emotional door Your ex would have slammed...more
The Silent Killer: Essay on Emotional Abuse Sample Essay Words 2,692The second article by Ackerman is on emotional abuse from the point of view of a victim who defines emotional abuse as the silent victimization of someone's mind, body and spirit. This article is an expressive detail of what an emotional abuse victim suffers and experiences and how it affects that individual in later life. The key word used in this article is silence. When Ackerman talks about abuse to a degree it appears that she discusses emotional neglect as that is what silence is about and when she talks of communicating with children she wants to break that silence. However later on she says that it can be in form of verbal comments also in terms of criticism of appearance. The author admits that this term did not exist twenty years ago and even today it is blurred with other things like hypertension or eating disorders. However she says there is a need to differentiate it. She believes that it is important to know the cause and understand why and how the person who inflicts the abuse does it. Once the victim becomes aware he or she will not allow anyone to do that.The third article is by Andrew...more
PAXIL: for better emotional stability Paxil belongs to the group of antidepressants. It is used in the treatment of depression, over anxiety, stress after a trauma, mood swings, dysphoric disorder that might happen before menstruation. It...more
I grew up in a family where it seemed to me that the only one who was allowed to get angry was my mother. I seemed to be allowed only to be happy or hurt at least thats how I interpreted it all. As a result I not only lost touch with my real...more
Emotional Compassion Versus Unknown Abuses WHAT ARE WE REALLY DOING? Being just a "HUMAN" is not enough- One has to become "HUMANE" to have eyes which can see in this biting cold,the chilling wind which every night,lurking slyly comes as...more
The Link Between Emotional Issues And ADDHow kids interact with other kids around them is one indicator of how well they will develop in life. Some will do well, and others will continue to struggle throughout adulthood. But if they have ADD, they...more
As a matter of fact, men are stronger, more tougher and more dominant than women. So, it is difficult to digest that even these stronger parts of our society can be a victim of abuse, especially from the weaker sex. Yet when you are in the field of...more