Step1 Surviving women A recent research study found out that women all over United States enroll for courses and seminars that supposedly teach them how they can be assertive and use power in workplace and in everyday lives. We see power plays as traditionally and predominantly male domain and their prerogative. Are you among those many women who generally spend their hard-earned money taking courses that promise them miraculously to learn how to...more
Step1 Surviving women A recent research study found out that women all over United States enroll for courses and seminars that supposedly teach them how they can be assertive and use power in workplace and in everyday lives. We see power plays as traditionally and predominantly male domain and their prerogative. Are you among those many women who generally spend their hard-earned money taking courses that promise them miraculously to learn how to...more
The honeymoon stage, marital bliss and newlyweds are all words to describe you and your first year of marriage. While the words conjure up images of simplicity, passion and possibly choirs singing in the background, the truth about the first year of marriage comes as quite a shock to many lovebirds. According to information collected by the US Census Bureau, the median age of a woman at their first divorce is 29, for men it is 30.5. The Bureau also reports that the average number of years a marriage lasts in the United States is 7.8. This by no means is meant to suggest that your marriage is doomed. But, many couples are not prepared for what is in store for them. When people are young, they have the illusion that the love they share with their husband or wife is stronger than the love of couples who have come before them. But, regardless of how strong you feel your love is, marriage still takes work. Here is what you can expect in your first year of marriage, and advice for how you can keep your bond strong. Expect change: Natural changes always happen in any relationship. It is just a matter of being prepared for them. For example, if you have never lived with your spouse prior...more
Let us go back in time to the spring of 1916. The world was in turmoil. A World War was devastating Europe. Bodies were strewn all over the farmlands of France and Germany. The winter had been hellish, slowing troop movement to a virtual standstill. Because of the terrible weather, soldiers of both sides were pinned down in foxholes for months...more
Often the green monster, known as jealousy, rears its ugly head and forces its way into your relationship. As unwelcome as it may be, jealousy is a problem that most couples deal with from time to time. But, it should not consume your relationship or become a point of stress. Most of the time, issues with jealousy can be resolved. Ask these...more
Just like a marriage itself, marital counseling is a delicate process that works best when both parties are fully committed. If you and your spouse decide that you would like to meet with a marriage counselor, it is never going to be detrimental to the relationship. Even working towards small changes, or just simply having a forum to express your feelings, can be beneficial to any relationship. So, whether you have had a few fights, or have been sleeping in separate bedrooms, your local marriage therapist is trained to guide you back to marital bliss. Within the first few sessions, most of couples who visit a counselor admit to seeing improvements in their marriage. It does take work and dedication, but to get the most out of your counseling sessions the following are suggested: Keep a positive attitude: Even if you dont think that you need counseling, go into your first session with an upbeat attitude and positive mindset. Your mood will dictate how you are affected by the therapy. If you automatically write off counseling as unnecessary, then you probably wont enjoy it. Instead, promise yourself that for the first hour you will listen to the therapist, answer his questions and...more
If you have never gone to a therapist before, then not knowing what to expect during that first session could be nerve-racking enough to keep you from picking up the phone to make an appointment. But, going to a therapist can help save your marriage....more
When it comes to self defense products for women, the choices are almost overwhelming. There are literally thousands to choose from. It can be a little intimidating. Women are the targets of violence by a nine to one over men-a fact not gone...more
A woman is a woman is a woman. No matter what size or shape she is, ultimately she still wants to feel like a woman - like the beautiful, appealing and wonderful person she is. For a long time this message fell on deaf ears within the lingerie and...more
Marriage is meant to be a journey between two people who have promised to love one another forever. The two of you are supposed to face battles head on and build a life together. Once you are married, you are half of a partnership. But, becoming too...more
Since therapy is so much about opening yourself up and asking for the help of a professional, feeling comfortable in the presence of your therapist is key to working out your conflicts. It can be nerve-racking for patients to open up to a third...more
Some people may be hesitant to seek marriage counseling because of the stigma that surrounds talking to a professional about their problems. Others may be reluctant to admit that they have a problem at all. A lot of couples view going to a marriage...more