5 Ways To Get Back At Your Ex, Or Get Your Ex Back.
Relationships are fragile, living enteritis that need nurturing and building up if are to remain healthy an flourishing
. It's a fact of life that unfortunately, break ups will happen, and they are stressful, frustrating and nerve wracking,What if you you are involved in a relationship that breaks up, your first thought may be how to get back at your ex, But is this really the best step?
One of the most influential ways that you can actually get back at your ex will not only put your ex in an interesting predicament, but it may also repair the relationship by showing your ex how important you are and were to them.
You will see how these 5 tips will not only get back at your ex, but will also lay the foundation for getting your ex back in you life.
1 - Be strong.
Nobody needs the needy, and this applies when it comes to broken up relationships. Do not appear to be someone who is feeling desperate, with begging or clingy behaviour. By letting your ex think you have moved on without them by acting strong.
So when you've moved on, your ex will come to the realisation that they have not.
2 - Get out and about!
This is no time for you to be alone. Call your friends and get out of the house. Develop a new social network and enjoy some entertainment in your life. This does not mean you have to date, or even pay attention to the opposite sex, but you do need to be getting out and enjoying your time with your friends.
This will not only will this be therapeutic, but it will also help convince your ex that they lost a real gem.
3 - Minimise communication.
Closing the doors of communication may appear counter-intuitive when your primary focus is to reignite things, but it is one of the most important steps when getting back at your ex or getting your ex back. Have a break from the ex, no texting or calls, let him or her start to miss you without any contact.
This will give your ex time to clear his or her mind and realise how valuable your relationship was.
4 - Be flexible.
Do not be demanding that they move out, or pick their things up by a certain date. Be flexible, be a listener and a sympathiser. Your ex will be surprised when they see this side of you, and it may inspire them to build the lines of communication that were lacking when the breakup came into play.
5 - Simply be yourself. There was a really good reason for why you and your ex had a relationship to begin with, so go back to being yourself and let your ex remember why they loved you in the first place. This renewed self perception of your own self will surely rub off on your ex as well.
by: Steve Hoffmann