A Brief Internet Dating Guide For All New Online Romeos And Juliets
A Brief Internet Dating Guide For All New Online Romeos And Juliets
For those guys and gals out there who just want to be left in peace to find love on the 'net, here's a short internet dating guide, with a few helpful tips to get them started - and out of the radar of those "helpful" fixer-upper friends.
Before going any farther, keep in mind there are many, many different dating sites you can join - thanks to the boom of cyber-space, and the recent ability to monitor your life from your couch.
These days, there are dating sites that cater to every type of love hopeful out there. They range from the regular "girl and boy next door looking for love" venue, to those in certain professions, who are only interested in dating those of the opposite sex who are bartenders on fancy cruise ships. Read the fine print at the sites you check out - before you join. You don't want to accidentally end up a member of a singles club that's specifically for Christian golfing enthusiasts, if neither category applies to you.
So you'll be ahead of the game when you do find one you like, here are some tips to help you show yourself off at your best - so you can find your love as soon as possible:
Some suggestions for women:
It's OK to relay your hopes and dreams for the future on the "about me" section of your profile, but don't ramble on and one about little details. Just be truthful about what you like to do - and what you're not so crazy about. Don't pretend to be into something just to hook a certain man - you'll only be setting yourself up for failure from the beginning.
In describing yourself, keep it down to earth, but not TOO chatty. Remember to be honest in disclosing your likes, and dislikes, as well. Don't say you love a sport, when just the thought of it makes you switch the TV channel in your head. In pretending to be another person, you're starting out with a lie.
And, if you decide to do this anyway, remember that he will catch on eventually - then you'll have to explain yourself, OR you'll spend the rest of your relationship with him, pretending to stomach something that makes you sick. Why even bother, when there are so many men to meet, who share your same views on a subject?
You'll see that you will attract men who feel the same as you.
Specifically for men:
OK Men - most women are happy to relinquish control to you - in those departments that are "man specific", anyway. But most of them also like it when you show a bit of "male mushiness", as well. Even the toughest of the male genders has a little bit of it in him, so flaunt yours once in a while - see what it brings you.
Stand by those things you require in a relationship with a woman. If you have extremely high morals and you expect the same from her, don't portray yourself as the devil-may-care type, just to be more appealing - then pull the old "switcharoo" somewhere down the road. Besides shocking your "free spirited" date, you know that sooner or later everyone's true colors come out, so you may as well just cut to the chase in the beginning, and avoid messy endings later.
As far as looks go, you don't have to be a Don Juan to have the ladies falling all over you. One of the strongest attractions for women when it comes to men, is a great sense of humor. What's meant by that is, being able to laugh things off, AND laugh at yourself, as well. All females feel better when their men let them know through laughter that everything will always be OK in the end.
So although there are many more tips for the new online love candidate, hopefully this little internet dating guide will help avoid the well-meant - but annoying - intentions of your friends, and start you on your way to finding that perfect someone you've been waiting for.
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