Advantages and Disadvnatages of Dating Older Women
Advantages and Disadvnatages of Dating Older Women
Cougar-Toy boy relationships are on the increase today. Society seems to be going easy on the kind of mates people choose today. Though this kind of relationship may be frowned upon by parents and our elders, they wouldn't pour vitriol on it like in the olden days. The cougar and toy boy are slowly finding their place in the society. Very soon this hot topic will be old news.
There are many advantages that come with dating an older woman. I will begin with the first one the young guys like, financial assistance. Being in college and broke is not an exciting phenomenon. Every guys know that this are the best years of our lives and many people go to all extremes to have fun. Getting a sugar mummy to help you defray the costs may mean you don't have to be the one who gets to spend your Fridays nights all alone and lonely.
Two, sugar mummies come with a lot of experience between their shoulders. She will teach you all the things momma never taught you and more. You will actually get to be more skillful in bed and you will know how to treat women better than your peers. Older women are more comfortable with their bodies and this means you will try many things you would never dare with a girl you age.
You are also likely to end up the hero of your friends who are not lucky enough to get an older woman. They will want to know what it feels like just to spend some time with a mature woman.
Best of all older women can teach you a lot in life. Like how they made it big in business or how they climbed the career ladder. If you keep your eyes open you could actually come out of this relationship with more than just a few expensive gifts and memories.
The cons of this kind of relationship may not be many but you have to consider them. For one you are the hunted here and she expects you to play by every rule in the book. This may leave you feeling like somebody is controlling your life. Telling her what you expect of the relationship may help set the record straight right from the start however.
Older women may be carrying excess baggage too. You can't expect her to forty something and a virgin. She has for sure had boyfriends, divorced husbands and the like. You will have to look for a way to handle this.
All in all I think dating an older woman is a good thing and if you are interested you should definitely consider it.
