An Effective Approach to Getting Your Ex Back
An Effective Approach to Getting Your Ex Back
After a heart breaking, and life-altering break up, the only thing that constantly runs through your mind is how to get your ex back for everything they have done to you. You plot revenge against them and their new girlfriends and boyfriends, call and email mean and hurtful messages, and think about completely demolishing and obliterating their social life. Even though in some ways you want to win your ex back, you also want to kill them all at the same time. The solution is simple, do not get mad, and get even.
Instead of destroying your ex's life, take revenge upon it. Do not do anything childish and irrational like destroying their property or stalking their new lovers, but do this in a defined and classy way. Obviously, you would not be angry and resentful if they had not did anything wrong, so they deserve the pay back ten fold. If they want to be manipulative, conniving, and deceiving, then plays them at their own game. You will not only get the satisfaction of getting your ex back, but the gratification of being the better person.
In order to get your ex back, you must be patient and be willing to have a casual relationship with them. Call the ex, and tell him to meet you for a late night drink, and tell him that is very casual and just to come after work. While he or she is going to meet you in their work clothes, you are going to be dressed to the nine. Bust out the little black dress and those Armani dress pants that you never have any place to wear. Wash up, smell good, and do your hair and make up to compliment you in the best of ways. By looking fabulous, you will feel confident, cool, and sexy.
The next step into getting your ex back is to make them wait and wonder. Be fashionably late ten or fifteen minutes, just because you were to busy doing something else. The more you act as if you do not care, the more your ex will want you because now you are something they cannot have. Make an entrance because it is your time to shine. Non-verbally flirt with your eyes and body movements to be noticed by others. You want to be the person everyone else is looking at.
Act calm and cool even though you are nervous as hell. Talk about work, family and friends without sounding angry or resentful. In order to get your ex back, you need to show them that you do not care who they are dating because you are over them. Now you are unattainable and unreachable because you are over them and everybody else in the room wants you. Your ex will be amazed and jealous because of this.
The key to getting your ex back is to be sexy without being sexually explicit. Touch their arms and hands, and even delicately kiss them on the lips towards the end of the date. They will realize you are irresistible, but now they cannot have you. Most likely by the end of the night your ex will want to take you home, but it is imperative your refuse them because then the mystery will be lost and they will become uninterested again. You can do this one night or many, but the point is to play them, not get back with them. Drop them from your life as if they dropped you, and then watch them come back groveling.