Getting Your Ex Back - Do Not Have Sex With Your Ex
Getting Your Ex Back - Do Not Have Sex With Your Ex
One of the worst things you could ever do when you want your ex back is to sleep with them. There are many emotions involved and if your ex will come back to you pertains to the flip of a coin. Why gamble with your emotions? On the other hand, if you merely want to have sex with them and you know emotions will not be flared, then even I would state that this is OK.
Sex does not ensure anything but pleasure
Sex will not make your ex come back to you. No matter how much of a Casanova you believe you are, it is just not enough for anyone to want to come running back to you. Some believe that sleeping with their ex will be the best sexual experience they ever had however, as tempting as it may become, you need to come to your senses while realizing that this might be the biggest mistake you will ever make in wanting your ex back.
Sometimes uncharted territories are far better than sex with your ex
The majority of people have reported that sex with their ex after a failed relationship does tend to be better as compared to sex during the relationship. There are many reasons for this factor. Both of you are familiar with one another and you both know what to expect from one another sexually but do you know what to expect from one another emotionally?
Avoid the emotional drama
In the beginning, it will be great maybe even earth shattering but there are bad consequences that will not immediately appear. Some women are far more emotional as compared to men and this is where many women get hurt. Men can also be emotional through this especially if they were the ones who were dumped in the first place and feelings are still present. If you want your ex back and perform this, the result could be disastrous.
Are you strong enough to walk away?
Most people will state that they are mature and strong enough to have sex with their ex while walking away afterwards, but people more times to none are lying to themselves.
If this begins happening on a regular basis, feelings can become involved once again. We have no control over developing feelings for someone no matter how strong emotionally you claim to be.
Do not utilize sex as a tool
You must remember that sex is not love. Sex is not a useful tool in getting your ex back. Just because someone is having sex with you this does not mean that, your ex loves you or wants to come back to you.
Someone you have sex with does not even have to feel romantically toward you. Sex is about physical pleasure and does not have to entail matters of the heart. If you want your ex back, do not perform this mistake, you are not only playing with your own feelings and emotions but you are playing with the heart of your ex while risking getting hurt in the end.