If you have a change in circumstance, such as a job that keeps you from making support payments
, you could find yourself in contempt of court. You could end up in court having to scramble for a defense when the Ex decides to claim you are simply not paying. But what you need to understand is that there is a difference in true contempt and circumstantial problems causing non-payment. You have to understand what contempt of court means.
Are You Unable to Comply?
Has your income changed? Have you lost a job? Have these situations prevented you from paying the support the court commanded you to pay? If so, then you are not in true contempt of court. Real contempt means just thatyou have "contempt" for the order the court has given you. It means nothing to you and you are not going to comply and pay even if you have all the money in the world. But circumstances causing the problem are different.
Preparing Your Defense
If you do find yourself in this situation, there are things you can do. You can prepare a written plea in advance of the court hearing which will allow you to make your plea calmly and with a clear head. While you do not want to have an underdog attitude, neither do you want do come into the court room cocky and angry. Always be respectful.
Avoiding the Problem
You can also try to avoid being hit with a contempt of court charge with your circumstances. You can do this by making small, irregular payments--no matter how small. Paying SOMETHING shows you are trying to do your best and that you want to comply. This can make a difference in a defense plea as well.