Easy Steps to Get Your Ex Back
Easy Steps to Get Your Ex Back
Easy Steps to Get Your Ex BackGetting Anxious
You want to get your ex back as soon as possible, hopefully in one fell swoop. However things does not usually happen this way. Maybe you've seen it happen in the movies but this is reality. As they say, one thing at a time. Little baby steps is the way to go. Instead of getting back together now, how about just grabbing coffee together?
Little Small Steps
Instead of making huge leaps and fall flat on your face, how about taking little sure steps? Before going out on a date, having coffee is a reassuring small step, which is very effective in the re-bonding process. And you can ease back into the relationship gradually.
Can't even get your ex out to coffee? Then take a step back. It is obvious both of you need a break.
Taking a Break
After all the emotions and anguish you need a rest. By rest I really mean rest. But don't retreat into a cocoon. Resist the tendency to withdrawal, this is a very slippery slop, avoid it at all costs. You must not feel sorry for yourself, these things happen to most of us and it will pass. As a matter of fact the majority of relationship breakups are reversible.
So keep an optimistic outlook. When sufficient time has past you can take the steps. I have found a resource that will tell you when and how, and you can get your ex back step by step.
What Not to Do
For heaven's sake don't play the jealous game. The stakes are too high, and you will likely lose the gamble.
Don't enlist family and friends to help, it will only make matters worse, they are amateurs and they don't know any better.
Don't apologize just yet, you have no idea what is at stake.
Don't broadcast you problems, other people are not interested in your affairs, your are only making yourself a subject for gossip.
Don't harass your ex, if you must make contact, do so sparingly.
What to Do
Live you life normally, go to work as usual run your errands as usual.
Go out with your friends and try to have a reasonably good time,
Play sports - this is very therapeutic.
Groom yourself well, this is very important, don't underestimate this step.
So keep all the above points in mind before you try to get your ex back.
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