Experience = Confidence

Experience = Confidence

Experience = Confidence

I see it all the time and not only on this forum but others as well. People go on the internet to get the solutions. They want the right words, the right moves, and the proper steps for success. That's all right, there's nothing wrong with wanting to be informed. However, alot of people tend to miss the entire point. From bodybuilding to picking up chicks it's not the information you can learn that's important. Why do you think naturals are so good, they never needed to learn a shread of information to pull the pussy they do.

Experience is by far the most powerful and most important form of knowledge you can gain. Sure there may be a set path you can learn online and try for yourself. The key beingTRY FOR YOURSELF. Just because you come online and study every piece of information out there doesn't make you the next cassanova. Infact, i've had experience in the past where techniques i've learned from online the community had backfired on me. Some girls prefer AFC moves to the whole PUA thing. A big example is Negs. Some guys never have to use them, some never stop using them. Until you go out there and start talking to women you won't understand why sometimes they are used and sometimes discarded.

Never underestimate personal experience. Not only does it lead to more confidence, but it leads to a fuller life. It can build integrity. What would make you more proud of who you are, being the guy that avoided the chick because you felt uncomfortable or the guy that took a shot and failed? Social dynamics is really just one big game.

Learn from your mistakes. Just because you took and shot and it was way off doesn't mean you suck. If you can learn what you did wrong and adjust it is really just building experience. And like any game, when you build experience you get better.Keep this is mind, even though you may not want to go out and game because you are just taking your first steps keep in mind that your first apporch(and this can be from any point in your life, not just game related) will be your worse but the secret is knowing that it's not that bad. Infact, you'll realize that what seemed like a scary monster in the closet was actually a trendy coat that works well with your outfit.

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