. They might be as hurt as their wives, but one thing for sure is that cheating husbands just don't know how to get their wives to forgive them for their cheating.
Reality bites and says you are still in love with your wife. Out of the highway, you can never really deny that she is everything inside you. At exactly the right time, you can never guess when it happens, but you are sure it will.
It wouldn't take that long until you have overcome the fiery emotions of your cheating. Likewise, it will take time for your wife to digest everything before she ever begins to utter the words of forgiveness.
Leave her ample time to think about the issue. Don't force her to forgive you nor try to put forgiveness in haste because a hurried recovery will suffer twice the pain.
Be sure that when this day comes you are ready to answer honestly all her questions.
Take a Step Back
Give her a little bit of space. Now is not the time to fill her ears with how sorry you are or how much you regret what you did. Let her know in a calm even manner that you never stopped loving her and that you really want to save the marriage and then let her know that you're going to give her a little time and space so she can put things in perspective and see what she wants.
This lets her know that you aren't abandoning her. It also puts the ball in her court (in her mind). And, it gives her a little emotional space so she can work out how she feels and what she wants. These are all good things for you to do if you really want her forgiveness.
Put Pen to Your Feelings
It is not yet the end of the world. There is still hope while you are still breathing. Words are not really as reliable as you think. You might have slip-of-the-tongue or you might say the wrong things that will eventually send her off. Take advantage of the old fashioned way of expressing emotion which is writing.
The beauty of writing lies deeply on its feeling of being personal. While she is under the emotional spell of mixed emotions, reading a hand-written letter from you can be very surprising. It sounds sweet though to read an old-fashioned letter from a husband who has wronged a wife. Letters is more like you directly saying what you have to say to your wife. It has some personal touch like you're talking to your wife without any interruptions.